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What makes a great blowjob?

Sex is amazing, but sometimes (only sometimes) oral sex is even better. This isn't true with every woman, but some seem to have perfected the art of the blowjob. I decided to ask around and see what makes the perfect B.J.

The one sex tip every woman I spoke with would like to offer to every man is to stop ramming with your penis. Girls like to feel in control of your pleasure. They know how to administer oral sex and don't want you screwing it up.

As far as the guys, they had some interesting (sometimes contradictory) things to say about what a girl needs to do to give the perfect blowjob.

1. Wet Mouth. You would think this one is a given, but most guys I talked to have had at least one dry B.J. Ladies, make sure you stay hydrated and don't be afraid to spit a little bit. Sometimes a girl will use up all of her moisture too early when should could take breaks here and there with her hand.

2. Know the Penis. Girls need to know that it's the head that's most sensitive. Touching the shaft is nice for a second or two, but doesn't do that much.

3. Technique. There are a few techniques that work really well, but the trick is not being afraid to keep doing new things. Look online, talk to friends, and read Cosmo. When you read something you aren't sure about, don't fret too much. Try whatever your interpretation of it is. Remember that guys love getting head, so don't feel bad if you're trying something new and it isn't working. Simply move on to something else.

4. Use Your Hands. This one might sound like the opposite of what guys like, but we want you to involve your lips and hands. Don't turn it into a hand job, but remember that we want as much attention to our dicks as we can get.

5. Love the Task. Even if you don't really want to do it, pretending to love it will go a really way in your relationship

6. Bring in a Partner. This one isn't realistic for most couples but if you're casually dating, then don't be afraid to suggest another girl in to fulfill sex fantasies. This will also work as a sharing of best practices.

Finally, the best advice I hear all day was to simply not be afraid. A girl that has confidence trumps a girl with all the tricks. Just enjoy yourself and I promise he will too.